Holochain dependency, dependencies updates

[ThetaSinner]

Complementary to #3667

A few of our libraries have dependencies that could use updating.

Holochain org dependencies

• lair
• sodoken (one_err)
• holochain-wasmer

Others

• one_err
• contrafact

Possibly some others!

We have several quite low-level dependencies that are on different versions and causing issues - e.g. getrandom x3. As much as possible we want to move our dependencies forward and try to reduce the version spread for dependencies. We won't be able to get to a perfect state, but doing a round of updates for everything around the same time should help.

[ThetaSinner]

lair is done here -> holochain/lair#130
Except for rcgen which has quite a few API changes - would still be good to look at that.

sodoken has also now been looked at recently -> holochain/sodoken#25

holochain-wasmer, there is a newer wasmer available but it depends on a yanked crate... so it's not usable. We can upgrade next time they do a release.

The others could probably use a look, I haven't checked those.

[ThetaSinner]

Wasmer now also done because they published a patch version that didn't depend on the yanked crate.