fix(tls) proper SSL_RECEIVED_SHUTDOWN handling

[cirospaciari]

What does this PR do?

Fixes #10832
Fixes #10991
Fixes #10797
Fixes #10772
Fixes #10695
Fixes #10539
Fixes #10436

Possibly fixes:

• Segfault while using websockets with socket.io #11088

How did you verify your code works?

Test added

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❌ @cirospaciari, your commit has failing tests :(

💪 2 failing tests Darwin AARCH64

• test/js/bun/http/serve.test.ts 2 failing
• test/js/web/websocket/websocket.test.js 1 failing

💻 3 failing tests Darwin x64 baseline

• test/js/bun/http/serve.test.ts 1 failing
• test/js/node/process/process.test.js 1 failing
• test/js/web/websocket/websocket.test.js 1 failing

💻 3 failing tests Darwin x64

• test/cli/install/bun-create.test.ts 2 failing
• test/js/node/process/process.test.js 1 failing
• test/js/web/websocket/websocket.test.js 1 failing

🐧💪 2 failing tests Linux AARCH64

• test/js/deno/crypto/webcrypto.test.ts 1 failing
• test/js/web/websocket/websocket.test.js 1 failing

🪟💻 9 failing tests Windows x64 baseline

• test/cli/install/bunx.test.ts 1 failing
• test/integration/esbuild/esbuild.test.ts 1 failing
• test/integration/next-pages/test/dev-server-ssr-100.test.ts 1 failing
• test/integration/next-pages/test/dev-server.test.ts 1 failing
• test/integration/next-pages/test/next-build.test.ts 1 failing
• test/js/bun/shell/bunshell.test.ts 1 failing
• test/js/node/dns/node-dns.test.js 2 failing
• test/js/node/process/process.test.js 2 failing
• test/js/web/websocket/websocket.test.js SIGTERM

🪟💻 8 failing tests Windows x64

• test/cli/install/bunx.test.ts 1 failing
• test/integration/esbuild/esbuild.test.ts 1 failing
• test/integration/next-pages/test/dev-server.test.ts 1 failing
• test/js/bun/shell/bunshell.test.ts 1 failing
• test/js/node/child_process/child_process.test.ts 1 failing
• test/js/node/dns/node-dns.test.js 2 failing
• test/js/node/process/process.test.js 2 failing
• test/js/web/websocket/websocket.test.js SIGTERM

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